Letting go / getting over / moving on =}

Back on the track "Shweta Gurung" :)

I hope all my honey pies are doing good :D

So let's get started for now. The headings clearly tells you what the blog is about isn't it? Well I see most of the people on my Facebook going through break-up shits and there are some people who are asking me some suggestions to move on. I am not a pro, to tell you what to do but still will try my best. So basically this blog gonna be to all the ones who so wanted to know what to do or how to get over and just move on.

Being a girl, I know that we are really emotional like seriously. We gotta suffer a lot more than guys but you know what we are still strong. We don't know how strong we are until and unless being strong is the only option left behind or ahead. Not only girls but there are guys who are suffering from these kinda sad things. I know its not easy to forget everything, leave behind and just move on. Your friends gonna say "Just leave it and move on, you deserve much better" But what you feel is that "No one does understands me, just walk in my shoes and you'll know how much it hurts" Are you feeling the same too?

No one's gonna understand what you're going through until and unless they've gone through the same thing like you're going now. So its better to talk to those people who have been through break-up stuffs and has moved on now. All you can do is go insane time to time, you just can't concentrate on anything and feel like killing yourself isn't it? But why the hell do you want to kill yourself for that person who gives a damn on you. Why commit suicide for that one person who hurts you. Why think of ending your life for that one person and let all the ones suffer who cares you and loves you for who you are and nobody else. You're just gonna say "WHY IT'S ME ALL THE TIME, WHY?"

Its not easy to get over and move on just in a while. Its definitely gonna take time girls. Maybe a week, month or even a year. Time heals everything but you feel how to spend the time too right? OK then I'll tell you how. Get engaged in those things which makes you happy. Avoid thing about all those things which happened to you. So for that do all the things which brings smile on your face. You may join some classes, join a library and start reading books which gives you more out knowledge's too, help your parent's around and etc.

Get rid from your ex gifts:

You definitely get gifts when you are in a relation and after a break-up when you see them you miss him more. The more you see those gifts, the more you feel bad and sad. So you have a choice right here. Either throw them or donate it / store it in such a place where you won't go often. Stay away from all those stuffs and you will feel much better.

Change the entire decorations of your room:

There might be some places or things which reminds you of him. You might have Skype him or talked him over the phone while laying on bed or watching from the window. So when you sit at those places it reminds you of him right? So change the bed positions, change your room color if possible, change your blankets, pillows and curtains too. Stick those beautiful stickers around your wall. You might have any favorite cartoon characters like me....hahahaha!!!!!
(P.S: I know how much I love "Hello Kitty")

Shop till you drop:

Shopping yes........being a girl who doesn't love to go for a shopping right? Buy some new outfits, shoes, make-up stuffs or anything. Hang around with your friends and go for a shopping or just go with your siblings. Visit your favorite mall or just go and discover some new shopping paces like I do.

Change your entire look:

After you go for a shopping, change your get up and hair styles. Try wearing some new outfits and walk around. Wear those stuffs which you have never put on. Turn more girly if you aren't. Wear some good make-ups too. Color/dye your hair or get some amazing hair cut from good parlors around.

Hang around with your friends:

We definitely have those friends whom we're so open with. So go and just hang around with them. Avoid talking about love stuffs as much as you can because you have just gone through break-up stuffs and if you talk about love stuffs then it will surely remind you of your ex. And I bet you don't want to remember him in any cost. But the thing is that the more you try to avoid him, the more he will pop on your mind. SO just go with the flow. Go to your favorite places, watch movies, catch some coffee with your friends. 

Avoid Sad Songs:

There are hell a lot of sad songs and some you can relate to your life or yourself. If you really want to move and leave the past behind then 'AVOID LISTENING TO SAD SONGS' for God sake. If you listen to them, you feel more sad and all you can do is cry over and over again thinking whatever happened to you.
Listen to fun and happy songs. 
Songs can either make you depress or make you a happy person. The words of a song can clearly define you what you are actually going through.

Take out your frustrations:

People do differ from one another and so the way of taking out our frustrations are different. You either cry, shout or write journals. For me its all the above haha......yea....lol!!!!! When you're crying your friends gonna tell you not to cry as they care for you a lot. But I think if you cry then you gradually let out everything which you've been pressing down the bottom of your heart. Cry, shade all the tears but not every time. 

Go for a vacation:

After break-ups who doesn't want changes. If you go some where far away from you house for a while then you'll definitely feel good. Fresh air, new places and fun to be around with those people who loves and cares for you for who you are and nobody else :) Vacations are really essential in one's life. You need to get some fresh air from you hectic and tight schedule too. Go out of the town at least once a month or once in two months. Beautiful places filled with new adventures. How interesting that would be. I usually go to Pokhara as my Baba's (Dad's) family is there and got hell loads of cousins to hang around over there. 

Moreover start to love yourself and care about yourself like no one else does to you. Look in the mirror. See that pretty face? Look into your eyes in the mirror and tell to yourself that " I am beautiful in my own way. No matter what happens I'll never fall down. I'll get up and fight back and be independent rather than depending upon anyone. I love you." 

I hope this will help you out girls. This is the least I could do for all of you. Remember you are beautiful and world doesn't end when a guy leaves you :)Stay happy and be positive.You can even catch me on Facebook And Youtube "Shweta Gurung" and don't forget to catch my page "Fashion Trends" on Facebook.Cheers ^ ^P.S: Do let me know if you want me to make a short video of it :")

My New Year 2070 =}

How it started up......

Hello my honey bunnies ^ ^

So firstly I wanna wish you all a very "Happy New Year 2070"

May this year bring prosperity, success, happiness, joy and give you enough strengths to face all the difficulties and problems and end it up too.

My new year went all awesome actually. Firstly we had a program titled as "Subharambha 2070" by our Channel,(Channel Nepal). Many artist from music and film industries were invited and many of them performed too which was so awesome. We, the team of channel Nepal equally did a good job and some of the T.V Presenter including me had performed a dance. Dance is like always in my mind and heart. I had basically choreographed the dance but it couldn't go well if other VJs didn't supported me so thanks to them as well and also thanks to everyone for believing in me.

Was all set to perform in our first song which was Nepali. The first Nepali song was Yo timilay garda ho by James Shrestha featuring Gxsoul and Nasha ho yo kollywood ko nasha.I had performed in these songs along with one of my colleague. The other one was Malai cham cham nach na mann lagyo.
The another was a whole group dance in english.

I had wore off white  barbie skirt matching up with net black and cream top. A good and really comfy high heels, a hair bow, an stylish belt and bracelets of pearl. So everything was all set up.

Then came "New Year's Eve 2070", which is a Nepali New Year. I went to celebrate it with my closest friends and guess what an unexpected thing did happen. Never imagined off that we would have such a great time. I Thank God for the day where I got a chance to create some new memories and got so many good people around. Everything went so awesome and I enjoyed it a lot.
We first went to Isis, Thamel and then 1905. It was seriously hell a lot of fun. And few things were like crystal clear too and also I wanna thank to all the ones who were around me on that day for making it so memorable and special.

Returned back from party and stayed at my friends place. We talked around and it was already like 3:30am I guess when we fell asleep then I got a call from my dad at 5:00am saying I need to rush home as we were going to Pokhara. He asked me to come as we had a 'get together' from my dad's family at Pokhara. I was excited to go but can you imagine I just got not even 2 hours of sleep. So in a hurry I was riding my scooter in pajamas with high heels and jacket lol!!!!!

Got home, packed my stuffs then was off to Pokhara with my dad, uncle and a cousin sister. As we were going by our own car I could sleep quiet comfortably.
I felt like puking at times too haha.....Didn't wanted to eat anything except for fruits(I am a fruit lover) but on the way Thank God I found some water-melons :D
On the way it was sorta cold but when we reached there it was so freaking HOT!!!! And all I wanted to do was to jump in the water. Didn't feel like eating too..... :P

It was just a short trip or vacation so couldn't enjoy much but was happy to meet my cousins out there.
While returning back it was hot like hell and not even one ice-cream was enough for me. I saw those really blue beautiful and clean water flowing around while some were dried up which was so sad to see.

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So this is how my "New Year 2070" started, and I hope you all did had a great starting and if not no worries we still got a year to make it special so wishing you a very "Happy New Year" once again from my side.

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Love Ya All!!!!!