Letting go / getting over / moving on =}

Back on the track "Shweta Gurung" :)

I hope all my honey pies are doing good :D

So let's get started for now. The headings clearly tells you what the blog is about isn't it? Well I see most of the people on my Facebook going through break-up shits and there are some people who are asking me some suggestions to move on. I am not a pro, to tell you what to do but still will try my best. So basically this blog gonna be to all the ones who so wanted to know what to do or how to get over and just move on.

Being a girl, I know that we are really emotional like seriously. We gotta suffer a lot more than guys but you know what we are still strong. We don't know how strong we are until and unless being strong is the only option left behind or ahead. Not only girls but there are guys who are suffering from these kinda sad things. I know its not easy to forget everything, leave behind and just move on. Your friends gonna say "Just leave it and move on, you deserve much better" But what you feel is that "No one does understands me, just walk in my shoes and you'll know how much it hurts" Are you feeling the same too?

No one's gonna understand what you're going through until and unless they've gone through the same thing like you're going now. So its better to talk to those people who have been through break-up stuffs and has moved on now. All you can do is go insane time to time, you just can't concentrate on anything and feel like killing yourself isn't it? But why the hell do you want to kill yourself for that person who gives a damn on you. Why commit suicide for that one person who hurts you. Why think of ending your life for that one person and let all the ones suffer who cares you and loves you for who you are and nobody else. You're just gonna say "WHY IT'S ME ALL THE TIME, WHY?"

Its not easy to get over and move on just in a while. Its definitely gonna take time girls. Maybe a week, month or even a year. Time heals everything but you feel how to spend the time too right? OK then I'll tell you how. Get engaged in those things which makes you happy. Avoid thing about all those things which happened to you. So for that do all the things which brings smile on your face. You may join some classes, join a library and start reading books which gives you more out knowledge's too, help your parent's around and etc.

Get rid from your ex gifts:

You definitely get gifts when you are in a relation and after a break-up when you see them you miss him more. The more you see those gifts, the more you feel bad and sad. So you have a choice right here. Either throw them or donate it / store it in such a place where you won't go often. Stay away from all those stuffs and you will feel much better.

Change the entire decorations of your room:

There might be some places or things which reminds you of him. You might have Skype him or talked him over the phone while laying on bed or watching from the window. So when you sit at those places it reminds you of him right? So change the bed positions, change your room color if possible, change your blankets, pillows and curtains too. Stick those beautiful stickers around your wall. You might have any favorite cartoon characters like me....hahahaha!!!!!
(P.S: I know how much I love "Hello Kitty")

Shop till you drop:

Shopping yes........being a girl who doesn't love to go for a shopping right? Buy some new outfits, shoes, make-up stuffs or anything. Hang around with your friends and go for a shopping or just go with your siblings. Visit your favorite mall or just go and discover some new shopping paces like I do.

Change your entire look:

After you go for a shopping, change your get up and hair styles. Try wearing some new outfits and walk around. Wear those stuffs which you have never put on. Turn more girly if you aren't. Wear some good make-ups too. Color/dye your hair or get some amazing hair cut from good parlors around.

Hang around with your friends:

We definitely have those friends whom we're so open with. So go and just hang around with them. Avoid talking about love stuffs as much as you can because you have just gone through break-up stuffs and if you talk about love stuffs then it will surely remind you of your ex. And I bet you don't want to remember him in any cost. But the thing is that the more you try to avoid him, the more he will pop on your mind. SO just go with the flow. Go to your favorite places, watch movies, catch some coffee with your friends. 

Avoid Sad Songs:

There are hell a lot of sad songs and some you can relate to your life or yourself. If you really want to move and leave the past behind then 'AVOID LISTENING TO SAD SONGS' for God sake. If you listen to them, you feel more sad and all you can do is cry over and over again thinking whatever happened to you.
Listen to fun and happy songs. 
Songs can either make you depress or make you a happy person. The words of a song can clearly define you what you are actually going through.

Take out your frustrations:

People do differ from one another and so the way of taking out our frustrations are different. You either cry, shout or write journals. For me its all the above haha......yea....lol!!!!! When you're crying your friends gonna tell you not to cry as they care for you a lot. But I think if you cry then you gradually let out everything which you've been pressing down the bottom of your heart. Cry, shade all the tears but not every time. 

Go for a vacation:

After break-ups who doesn't want changes. If you go some where far away from you house for a while then you'll definitely feel good. Fresh air, new places and fun to be around with those people who loves and cares for you for who you are and nobody else :) Vacations are really essential in one's life. You need to get some fresh air from you hectic and tight schedule too. Go out of the town at least once a month or once in two months. Beautiful places filled with new adventures. How interesting that would be. I usually go to Pokhara as my Baba's (Dad's) family is there and got hell loads of cousins to hang around over there. 

Moreover start to love yourself and care about yourself like no one else does to you. Look in the mirror. See that pretty face? Look into your eyes in the mirror and tell to yourself that " I am beautiful in my own way. No matter what happens I'll never fall down. I'll get up and fight back and be independent rather than depending upon anyone. I love you." 

I hope this will help you out girls. This is the least I could do for all of you. Remember you are beautiful and world doesn't end when a guy leaves you :)Stay happy and be positive.You can even catch me on Facebook And Youtube "Shweta Gurung" and don't forget to catch my page "Fashion Trends" on Facebook.Cheers ^ ^P.S: Do let me know if you want me to make a short video of it :")

My New Year 2070 =}

How it started up......

Hello my honey bunnies ^ ^

So firstly I wanna wish you all a very "Happy New Year 2070"

May this year bring prosperity, success, happiness, joy and give you enough strengths to face all the difficulties and problems and end it up too.

My new year went all awesome actually. Firstly we had a program titled as "Subharambha 2070" by our Channel,(Channel Nepal). Many artist from music and film industries were invited and many of them performed too which was so awesome. We, the team of channel Nepal equally did a good job and some of the T.V Presenter including me had performed a dance. Dance is like always in my mind and heart. I had basically choreographed the dance but it couldn't go well if other VJs didn't supported me so thanks to them as well and also thanks to everyone for believing in me.

Was all set to perform in our first song which was Nepali. The first Nepali song was Yo timilay garda ho by James Shrestha featuring Gxsoul and Nasha ho yo kollywood ko nasha.I had performed in these songs along with one of my colleague. The other one was Malai cham cham nach na mann lagyo.
The another was a whole group dance in english.

I had wore off white  barbie skirt matching up with net black and cream top. A good and really comfy high heels, a hair bow, an stylish belt and bracelets of pearl. So everything was all set up.

Then came "New Year's Eve 2070", which is a Nepali New Year. I went to celebrate it with my closest friends and guess what an unexpected thing did happen. Never imagined off that we would have such a great time. I Thank God for the day where I got a chance to create some new memories and got so many good people around. Everything went so awesome and I enjoyed it a lot.
We first went to Isis, Thamel and then 1905. It was seriously hell a lot of fun. And few things were like crystal clear too and also I wanna thank to all the ones who were around me on that day for making it so memorable and special.

Returned back from party and stayed at my friends place. We talked around and it was already like 3:30am I guess when we fell asleep then I got a call from my dad at 5:00am saying I need to rush home as we were going to Pokhara. He asked me to come as we had a 'get together' from my dad's family at Pokhara. I was excited to go but can you imagine I just got not even 2 hours of sleep. So in a hurry I was riding my scooter in pajamas with high heels and jacket lol!!!!!

Got home, packed my stuffs then was off to Pokhara with my dad, uncle and a cousin sister. As we were going by our own car I could sleep quiet comfortably.
I felt like puking at times too haha.....Didn't wanted to eat anything except for fruits(I am a fruit lover) but on the way Thank God I found some water-melons :D
On the way it was sorta cold but when we reached there it was so freaking HOT!!!! And all I wanted to do was to jump in the water. Didn't feel like eating too..... :P

It was just a short trip or vacation so couldn't enjoy much but was happy to meet my cousins out there.
While returning back it was hot like hell and not even one ice-cream was enough for me. I saw those really blue beautiful and clean water flowing around while some were dried up which was so sad to see.

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So this is how my "New Year 2070" started, and I hope you all did had a great starting and if not no worries we still got a year to make it special so wishing you a very "Happy New Year" once again from my side.

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Love Ya All!!!!!

You are still strong and beautiful :)

Hello my hunny pies!!!!!

So well, I had to write something about you and your beauty. I've seen people crying and saying they are not worth it,specially teenagers. So here I will tell you that you are still beautiful in your own way and you deserve much better.

You never know when your life changes for me it changes in the blink of an eye. You actually don't know when your life takes a sudden turn, if its for good you'll be more happy but if its not good then you panic and just roam around all alone thinking what to do. I know many of you have gone from the same situation again and again and so do I. Its natural I guess. You might have so many questions roaming around your mind and you hardly can sleep right?

Firstly I'll tell you some of the reasons why people are disappointed and they think they are not a good person for anyone. People here rather pull your leg down instead of motivating you, they say rubbish things and comment on you so badly. I know it hurts you like crazy and you think you are a big loser but wait a second until and unless they are our loved one do you think their comments really does matter? Are they really important in your future as well. Nah.....so just give a dam to those kinda people.
Remember that everyone got haters and lovers too. Concentrate on the people who loves you and hats off to haters as well because your life is so much better than their's that's why they hate you and blabbers around about you.

10% of people can't handle these kinda stuffs and plans to kill themselves. Is that the only way to get rid from these things? That's gonna make you a 'BIG LOSER' trust me. What do you wanna prove actually?
Common now you are still good and beautiful like before and just remember that no one on earth is like you. You are just unique in your own way darling!!!!!

Now let's talk about the major problem which teenagers are usually facing. I've been seeing loads of status on Facebook which is related about love and break ups. Its good to fall in love but when you have to face break up situations then I see girls writing these stuffs "I am still incomplete without you and I can't live without you." O.K so let me clearly tell you the fact that everyone can live without anyone and the only thing you can't live without is oxygen and water. That's a natural fact. In each of us life we lose our loved once, our family members. You've been growing around them since little and when someone among them dies do you tell yourself that I will die too and can't live without them? 'NO' right so why do you want to kill yourself for a person whom you've just met.....why?

Point to be noted out here people. You still got a long way to move around, people gonna call you ugly, trip you down and so on but remember you are still beautiful like before and you gotta be strong, pull yourself up and learn how to fight back. Without falling down no one can learn. You have to go through some bitter and sweet experiences too :)

For me no matter what happens I am me, myself and no one can change that.
If someone avoids you or ditches you then it doesn't mean you are not perfect or you are not beautiful. Just remember that if its meant to be it will be some how. Killing yourself for such a filthy stuff is not good at all girls.There's still much more to get from life. Try to take everything positively. Looks does matter but not always, one should have a clever yet that attitude which can drop the jaw of people haha!!!!!......yea that's true and ya please stop comparing yourself from other people. Be who you are and no matter what happens or wherever life takes you, you are always gonna be mama's lovely girl and daddy's sweet princess :)

From this I am just trying to reach out the girls who think that there's nothing left in life. If you want more advice from me or need my help then you can always mail me at shweta_kash or add me on Facebook .

P.S: Show the world that no matter what happens you are still strong and beautiful :)
And just stop saying and blaming yourself saying "why its always me why????", Its not only you who is facing lots of problems, everyone does its just that some shows up while some hides it.

A Sweet Little Thing Called “LOVE”

Hello my lovy dovies ^ ^
What is love actually?
Well if you people ask me this question then I would say I’m still trying to figure it out like seriously…..yea…..but anyways it depends on people how they take it. Love doesn’t have to be only between two couples it’s actually between anyone right? Among your family members, friends, animals and so on.
But right now for me love is just an amazing feeling as I’m in love with almost every things that are around me especially I’m in love with my life where things are not perfect but still I’m happy with it.

LOVE…..
A really beautiful yet sweet thing right?
For me love is actually a wonderful thing which surrounds you. I’m just in love with the word ‘LOVE’.
Falling in love is a different thing. People who are in a relationship can really define that actually…….I can see you blushing haha!!!!!
But as I’m single I think for me love is that magic which can bring happiness……..It’s a complicated thing too at times I guess……. :-/

Anyways so talking about love well……I am in love with all my closed ones whom I’m surrounded with…..I love almost every creatures and I’m trying to be with them. I can fall for chocolates, flowers, hello kitty….lol!!!!!! (I know I sound so kiddish right now haha!!!!!!…..)
 “Hello Kitty” wow I want so many things of hello kitty haha!!!!!!!

So let’s come to love once again. “I love you like a love song baby”

To be in love and be loved is a really special thing and an amazing feeling. I just love to be with everyone who surrounds my world. It’s not necessary to be in a relation to know what love is like. Not everyone is in a relationship. If you are sad that you still haven’t found your soul mate or still single then common now enjoy the time which you have. Love will just find its way and then bring your prince charming or cindrella to you.

Right now I think I have started to love myself because I believe that you cannot love and care for others until and unless you love yourself. I’ve been buying all those stuffs which I want and can rather than thinking how I wish I had a boyfriend who can buy this for me. We must be independent actually right?
Everyday when I wake up and I look in the mirror I appreciate myself and give that huge smile so that my day go well too and this has helped me a lot. To love yourself is not that hard too. Learn to take care of yourself and just know how to handle yourself in all kind of situations. Remember that you have the remote control of you own life.

Love…..Love……Love………

A Short Biography =]

Hello Everyone....

Well basically this is my first blog  I am writing. I am Shweta Gurung from Kathamndu, Nepal, a country filled with natural beauties.I am doing my bachelor's level and working as a TV Presenter too.
I love to write a lot, travel around and meet new people. I love to listen music and dancing is my passion. Not only about dance but I am even more passion about fashion. I just love to update the latest trend but mostly I make my own fashion trends.

If you people ask what is life for me?
Well I would say that life....is a really beautiful and interesting thing. I thank god for sending me in such a great world. If life was easy then I bet it wouldn't be worth it right?
I believe that almost everyone goes through a same problem. Who doesn't have ups and downs in life but one should never give up. We shouldn't get fully depended on anyone. We gonna trip and fall too but you should learn to get up by yourself as one born alone an dies alone too :)

What about my job?
Well I just love my job. I think I am born to be a TV Presenter and plus working on shows about fashion can never go wrong for me. I even do some online selling with my brother and its going good actually.
So over all my job is going smoothly.

Talking about myself.....
Umm.....well like everyone says....I am a girl who is really hard to handle.I love to talk and explain things to people.I also love to take photographs and I am the one who can burn the dance floor. I love and care people but if you can't respect it you are so welcome to walk out of my life. I love animals specially dogs.
I can't say no to ice-creams and chocolates haha!!!!!......and I love chicken too :)
I am always there for people who needs my help.
If I am comfortable with you I can talk to you like crazy but if I am not I am like so silent.Every body has lovers and haters and I bet so do I......I love both my lovers and haters too :)
I usually don't hate people, I just dislike them that's it.......
And I really don't care what people talk about me because I believe that you are not famous until people talks about you ;)

I am really thankful to my parents for everything.My family is my life and without them I wouldn't be who I am today. I am also very much thankful to my craziest friends who are always there in my thick and thin.
And to those people who are now not a part of my life: Thanks for teaching me lots of things and walking away from my life but remember I wasn't the one to push you away, you guys were the one who decided to walk away from my life.

Anyways this was just my short biography.And now I will be posting more about fashion blogs and many more.Thanks to everyone who is and are supporting me and I hope to get all your support in future too :)
BTW you people can even visit my page on Facebook which is titled as "Fashion Trends"